I that liked the girlfriend she actually to me saying that must be brother and sister 2010-04-02 10:14: 00 origins: The NetEase woman forum with pasting 0 handsets reads the news And but she to me has said that must be the brother and sister, but I am not resigned, my this year\’s feeling sentiment one year time, what the difficult road to trade is only icy by the person use reality? Let me go to the bosom to doubt, I and her love, whether once passed through.
I and my present\’s girlfriend understanding probably more than one year, I this year am 25 years old, originally the work in some state-owned bank, very comfortably very comfortable work, the income is also quite abundant moreover eats and drinks did not worry, many incomes from moonlighting. The understanding present\’s girlfriend as a result of my friend\’s introduction, at that time my present\’s girlfriend mood is not good, because I happen to the work reason go to Shanghai, therefore the tragedy started in light of this.
The first contact time we are only eat meal to window-shop simply, because is the first contact does not have what thorough thing, but that night\’s she had proposed goes to take a bath with me together, I at that time want not to reject! Because everybody is not familiar after all. Afterward I flew back me to work place, later we have related, at that time I also just and preceding girlfriend bid good-bye, the sentiment was the spatial window time, therefore underwent 2-3 month-long communications, I resigned from the work to take to bring with resolutely to her love go Shanghai undertaking with all savings with her. Now wants to come from oneself to be silly, because at that time thought one like her very much, her tentative plan is very good, even had not considered the fund and feasibility, this has laid down many hidden dangers for afterward a lot!
We in Shanghai she has been neither cold nor hot to me, she wants me at outside maintains a distance, lets us relate placed the cousin and in cousin\’s foundation, the reason is this is easier to manage! What is more fearful is she does business the money is the set of credit card\’s cashes, in me knew that she later basic will not have gotten rid of the fund puzzle, I consummate the project and management in Shanghai very diligently, but the belt\’s money squanders quickly, my first belt probably is more than 40,000, except hiring the repair of house and her project shop has been not much left, therefore I was also urgent with the family in have collected 10,000 Yuan, during this he has let me make this to make that what I want to cooperate male many to make not, the key was says me in front of many peopleWithout experience is very stupid, I said that several she said my not mature emotionalism!
I have been insisting, but she chooses this shop and project were defeated quickly, because the market is not mature does not have the human spirit, our funds also almost in vain invest, I am have had a high and respected position at home, therefore basically anything does not do, will come to Shanghai later I every day to process the shop also to do laundry to tidy up the room, she will very late get out of bed every day on accesses the net to prepare food, because I greatly will not cook a meal her basic every day to scold me, how moreover before most annoying she frequently some boyfriend and her masculine friends saying they will like being cleaner than me and her, is how intelligent how will live, added that I will not live, any meritDoes not have, she is very tired! I acknowledged that I indeed will not live in some places, but I love her very earnestly very sincerely, she not the good place which does to me can give scolding each time, moreover she did not allow me to mention a spot her past!
As a result of the shop management\’s pressure and fund pressure, I start to look for the work, relied on past experience I am being very easy to find one to be possible in Shanghai to maintain the livelihood the work, during this, she did not have what money (saying that I believe), therefore the daily expenses basically were I leave. She still is very but desolate to me, I will handle anything she to propose that at home my accusation also will even begin and curses at people, I knew that she has not worked temporarily the mood not to be good, I will somewhat live on some places to be very defective, therefore has contained her! When each physiological cycle I will go for her to buy the medicine in spite of the rain; Every day gets off work to save a part of travel expense clothes which buys to like to her; Every night booing water for foot-washing ……Perhaps in her opinion these are becoming accustomed, before she often said that has not married, does not need for the opposite party to take any responsibility, moreover she always does not give me any commitment and sweet words and honeyed phrases! Moreover her friend she always on own initiative did not introduce to me! Some family members have no recourse saw that my she also very much silenced, exceptionally does me to be awkward, said I liked her also very much favoring her really very much, knew that she I basic has not bought any elephant appearance thing for herself these days, on the one hand needs to contribute money for the future, on the one hand moreover must render back the money for her!
She had said are very earnest to the sexual relations, moreover she also said that she was impossible very forgetting past easily, she did not let me think in her qq space the writing, but I saw in secret, she wrote her once very much to marry her former boyfriend whole-heartedly, this man very glib handsome boy that kind, more laughable their two fought very much when bid good-bye this male must the bidding good-bye expense! Is such man my girlfriend still thought that his very good even I to say very perfectly may not say, she said his merit I cannot achieve for a lifetime! This man is bidding good-bye later in all directions will fabricate a rumor to her, like this she also regretted that said anything is predestined friends does not have the share! Actually I had looked in her space writing, she is before that her the boyfriend better development effort, but proposed on own initiative bids good-bye, moreover after bidding good-bye, wrote the diary was also anything fondly remembers his, she explained that this was from the online duplication!
This year celebrates the new year I to bring back her family, she has been neither cold nor hot, gives the euphemistic name of the first time to by good friend\’s status, she said that like this does not have the pressure. She in my family our family members to her should be very good, eats meal, exits to play, plays cards anything consists mainly of her! My mother also does laundry for her (is I does in Shanghai\’s besides preparing food outside matter)! My mother said that if she wants to be possible to remain to help her earnestly to arrange the work then to buy the house, her surface does not have the expression, she is not very warm in our family does not make anything very much on own initiative, she once had said buys any gold fitting before, boyfriend\’s parents, this she does not have the money I not to demand now, but some minimum matters she does not help not to greet on own initiative on own initiative! Lunar New Year\’s Eve that day, she added that because the first two men she do not want to be in love only to work to make money well, she came out for seven years not to the family in any money, her reason was to spend high! She boyfriend came and went out the play-ground and bar before him frequently! Moreover she to me has said that must be the brother and sister, but I am not resigned, my this year\’s sentimental one year time, what to trade is only icy by the person use reality? Let me suspect, I and her love, whether.
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